Given our hectic schedules and all the stresses of modern-day living, it’s quite common for sex to become routine and a little boring as well. Great sex is not just the outcome of great chemistry but requires a little bit of creativity sometimes as well.
1. Use Toys
Who said adults don’t need toys? If you’re having anything less than great sex, you need them! The range of items you can choose from has exploded in the last few years. In other words, there’s something exciting for just about everyone-from vibrating condom rings to sex swings or foam position props.
2. Dirty Talk
Never underestimate the power of a few subtly timed, downright filthy thoughts verbalized during sex. People have been getting turned on by words for hundreds of years, which is not surprising considering the brain is our largest sexual organ. Sorry guys! Women are especially susceptible to dirty talk and if it’s done right, they’ll be coming back for more. If you’ve never tried it before, it may be a little daunting to start with. However, you’ll figure out what she likes by how she responds as you venture deeper into these murky waters. You could also use this time to share your fantasies with each other. Enjoy the process-this is one of the few times you could be rewarded for having a dirty mouth!
They’re sexy, romantic and just plain effective! Everyone knows that if we hinder one sense, the others automatically become more acute. So place a silk cloth around her eyes and make it all about her for a while. By the time you’re through, she’ll be looking for ways to give you the same experience.
4. Role Play
Perhaps the reason you’re stuck in a rut is because you’re holding on to a lot of little stressors and so is your lady. So wouldn’t it be great to be someone else for a few hours? Role play is a light-hearted and sexy way to add a little spice to your romping. Not to mention, it also allows you to behave differently. The element of surprise and experimentation is always welcome in the bedroom! So what’s it to be? A naughty teacher? Sexy nurse? Strict policewoman? The possibilities are endless!
5. Get Kinky
Whether you consider yourself a deviant or not, a little light bondage never hurt anyone. Well, as long as you’re careful to keep it light! We’re certainly not suggesting you whip each other and have her walk all over you in painfully high stilettos. However, some light bondage can work wonders for your relationship and sex life. The idea is to be comfortable enough to take things to the next level and watch your libidos soar. Trust is also key here. So to get things going, tie her up gently and rock her world. And then hand over the restraints and let her have her way with you.