“69” refers to the carnal configuration that allows you and your partner to give each other simultaneous oral sex. It’s called “69” because of the way it looks when you and your man match your mouths to each other’s genitals. And, while it may take a little more coordination and confidence than other bedroom moves, the effort is usually worth it.
1. Have A Shower First
This should be a rule for pretty much any sexual activity. There definitely could be a case made for just getting after it regardless of how sweaty, dirty, or messy you both are every once in a while. However, this rule is the most essential when it comes to 69.
2. Always Give More Than You Receive
Guys definitely have a tendency to kind of sit back and enjoy the show, if you will – which isn’t exactly a fantastic experience for all the ladies out there.
3. Rules Of the Control
Though almost all 69 action starts with the guy on their back and the lady on top of them, some people (that share similar body types) have no trouble whatsoever “flipping the script” and taking the opposite approach. If it’s comfortable for both of you, the person that wants to dictate th
e pace and pressure of the 69 oral sex should always be on top – and then you should follow his or her lead.
4. Use a Pillow
The last thing that you want to do is stress and strain your neck when you are getting after it. Make sure that you have pillow right underneath your neck if you’re on the bottom. Thanks to it you will be supported and it will allow you to really get into the action. What is more, you can use it not only for cunnilingus but even when trying to hit her g-spot during typical intercourse in missionary position.
5. Don’t Forget That You Have Hands
One of the biggest problems that people face (especially those who do not have a lot of experience with oral stimulation) when it comes to 69 action is that they almost forget that they have hands – and try to do all the work with their mouths. While that effort is definitely appreciated, using your fingers to mix things up can really start to change the experience in an instant.
6. Don’t Be Afraid to Wander Around
If you are really hitting a groove (and your partner is responding well), obviously you do not want to change things up or get them off track, especially if the’re about to receive the orgasm! However, you should not be afraid of wondering around from the genitals and kissing lightly, licking, or feeling other areas of their body.
7. Your Partner Needs to Be Cool with It
There are some people out there that just don’t like giving oral (though they’re not too terribly shy about getting it as much as they can). You’re going to need to communicate with your partner and make sure that you are both on the same page sexually, or one of you is going to have an absolutely terrible time – which means that in the end, both of you are going to have bad experience.
8. Just Have Fun
Trying to focus on the tips and tricks above exclusively, or believing that there are some “rules” to picture-perfect 69 action, is really going to destroy your ability to live in the moment and really just have fun with it.