Ask any man if he has ever been out with an escort and the response you’d get would be the equivalent of asking your goldfish if it needs a bicycle: a blank stare and utter silence. Of course, the men will eventually deny it or casually change the subject. Now only a very nave individual would believe that most men have never called an escort service for one of their babes. Otherwise, how would these business survive for so long, and with such success?
Why do gentlemen insist on ordering women over the telephone (or via the Web) rather than find themselves long-term girlfriends that might actually be worth the investment?
1. No time for dating
Men who choose to opt for escort services aren’t all horrible individuals with the morals of Charlie Sheen. Some guys are actually pretty hot looking and wouldn’t have a hard time landing dates with most any woman they want. But many men who date escorts do so because they simply don’t have time to do the courting that is required when trying to find a date (or even maintain a relationship for that matter). For instance, traveling businessmen usually don’t have the time to find a date and so they opt for an escort. Why not get an escort? After all, he can have her custom-made to his preference (long blonde hair, green eyes, 5’10”, in a black evening gown) and there’s no awkwardness regarding sex and the like because hey, if the price is right, then the night’s his night.
Sometimes there are guys who simply aren’t able to close the dating deal because they lack, umm, a rich personality. They’re good-looking and have just about everything most men would want — but unfortunately, their personality is so unsophisticated and abrasive that they repel most women — women with depth anyway. And then there’s those guys who have great depth, but don’t have the physical attributes. Therefore, because these guys have such a difficult time getting conversations started with beautiful women, they choose to pay for beauty instead.
3. Ending isn’t always sex
Believe it or not, sometimes these gentlemen are simply searching for some company and don’t want a good roll in the hay (okay, don’t only want a good roll in the hay). Being in the presence of a beautiful woman, even if she’s paid to be there, sometimes makes guys feel worthy and proud. As well, not all escorts are readily available to furnish every client’s sexual needs or advances — at least that’s what they say. Then again, if the price is right, and almost every escort has a price, perhaps they’d be willing to break such a rule, only this one time of course. But back to my former point: not every man calls upon an escort for a guaranteed sex partner at the end of the night. Some guys literally just need a date because they’re in from out of town or because they want to look good in front of their colleagues/friends.
4. I would never do that
There are thousands of men who are upset because their women refuse to provide certain sexual favors for them. Which guy wouldn’t want try anal sex or spanking with his girlfriend? Being able to direct these women and make them perform sometimes peculiar sexual favors is also part of the beauty of the whole thing.
It’s hard enough for guys to land a date nowadays, let alone guarantee a night of satisfying sex, so they opt to delve into the “barter dating system.” Now obviously, if a man’s attached, what he needs to do is get home to his lady and try to communicate what he wants from the relationship rather than unzip his pants for a beautiful stranger to greet his penis. But if he has no family obligations nor a woman waiting at home, then perhaps this is not such a bad option for lonely or busy guys.